Kidney Transplant – A Good Match
In the summer of 2008, my husband Lynton, my daughter Mercy, her boyfriend (now husband) Will, and I planned to attend my nephew’s wedding in Hong Kong. That was the year when China was hosting the 2008 Summer Olympics. The airfares going to Hong Kong from the U.S. were higher than usual because of the people traveled to Beijing through Hong Kong. After searching, I found a Bangkok tour from the U.S. via Hong Kong, and we could stay in Hong Kong at any length of time. It was a deal I couldn’t resist. I had never been to Bangkok, so this would be a bonus for our trip. All we had to do was adding five days to our travel.
I scheduled the tour and stopped by Hong Kong first. We arrived on June 25, 2008 and stayed with my sister Yolanda. Yolanda and her husband Patrick took us sightseeing for two days. Hong Kong decorated the city with the Summer Olympics theme.
After my nephew’s beautiful traditional Chinese wedding, we went on a five-day tour in Bangkok. When the tour was over, we came back to U.S. via Hong Kong. There was a two-hour’s layover.
While we were waiting at the Hong Kong airport, I called Yolanda. To my surprise, there was worrisome news. Yolanda said while we were in Bangkok, one day Patrick went to work on the train as usual. He got on the train but had a feeling he should get off the train in the next station, and he did. As soon as he got off, he felt dizzy and fainted. Upon arriving the Emergency Room and attended by a doctor, he was diagnosed with kidney failure.
My heart was heavy for the worrisome news. Yolanda said they had known about the possibility for quite some time. They were thankful that Patrick got off the train at the next station and was taken to the hospital close to home. Besides, had he fainted on the train, it could have taken longer for Patrick to receive the hospital care.
We came back to the U.S. and I kept close contact with Yolanda. After Patrick received the initial treatment, the doctor put Patrick on routine dialysis at the hospital as outpatient services. He adjusted to the new condition well.
Three years prior to Patrick’s incident, their family migrated to Canada. Patrick and the two children moved to Vancouver, B.C. while Yolanda continued her government job in Hong Kong. To get their Canadian citizenship, they had to live in Canada for three consecutive years. They moved to Canada for two reasons, one was for the two children to get a good college education, the other was for getting better health care services. During the previous three years, Patrick stayed in Vancouver with the two children and went back to Hong Kong four times a year to spend time with Yolanda.
During the months Patrick received the outpatient dialysis services, he could not go to Vancouver to see his children. He then learned to do the dialysis by himself at home. He only needed to do it every twelve hours. After many months of doing it by himself, he could visit his children in Vancouver. He monitored the timing of the dialysis, so he didn’t have to do it on the plane. Most of the time he stayed in Hong Kong to be close to the hospital.
After assessing the chances and distance between Hong Kong and Canada, as well as Hong Kong and China, he registered in the medical system in China to get a kidney donation. His blood type is O. He could only receive a kidney from a donor with blood type O, whereas people with any blood types could accept blood type O kidney. He had fewer chances to get a kidney of the same blood type. The hospital in China told him that the waiting time was from two to ten years.
The four basic blood types are A, B, AB and O. People with type O blood can give to others with any blood type but can accept only from the ones with type O.
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accepted that he had to wait for a long time to get a kidney donation. He quit his job to take care of himself. Yolanda was very supportive. During this time, their children stayed in Vancouver with the family friends to finish school, the daughter finishing high school and the son finishing college.
After six months waiting, Patrick received a phone call from China; let him know that there was a kidney donation for him, and that he had to go right away for the transplant. Yolanda could not go with him without advanced notice to get a leave from her government job. Patrick’s sister went with him, taking the night train to China. Next day, Yolanda took time off from work and joined Patrick. She stayed with him for the ten days while Patrick went through testing, transplant, and observation.
When matching organs from deceased donors to patients on the waiting list, many of the factors taken into consideration are the same for all organs. These usually include:
- Blood type
- Body size
- Severity of patient’s medical condition
- Distance between the donor’s hospital and the patient’s hospital
- The patient’s waiting time
- Whether the patient is available (for example, whether the patient can be contacted and has no current infection or other temporary reason that transplant cannot take place)
Depending on the organ, however, some factors become more important. For example, some organs can survive outside the body longer than others. So, the distance between the donor’s hospital and the potential recipient’s hospital must be taken into consideration.
Many kidneys can stay outside the body for 36-48 hours so many more candidates from a wider geographic area can be considered in the kidney matching and allocation process than is the case for hearts or lungs.
Apparently, the donor and the Patrick were a Good Match. Patrick’s body showed no sign of rejection of the new kidney. After the ten days, Patrick’s condition stabilized, they went back to Hong Kong to receive the ongoing medical care. He was making good progress slowly but surely. We thank God that it was a miracle for him to get a kidney donation within six months. It was a miracle it was a Good Match of the donor and receiver.
To fast forward the story to 2017, Patrick eventual went back to work part time, and then transitioned to full time. He is now working a combination of a part-time church pastor, and part time Headquarter staff for his church. God is merciful. His loving kindness is with us forever!
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This was no co-incidence Miriam! You are right, God is merciful and prayers of family and church members worked and miracle happened.
May God bless you all with his love 💖
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Thank you, Meenakshi! I appreciated that my brother-in-law accepted the fact, and did his best and trust God. Situation like this, I think God honors our trust and miracle happens when it’s least expected.
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Totally agree with you!
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Yes, God is Good !
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Wow, such a powerful, inspiring, and wonderful story…a great match, and God’s blessing and miracle. Thank you for sharing!
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Yes, I believe in miracles, and I believe that God answers prayers! Thank you for your comment!
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Thank you for sharing. Very encouraging story.
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You’re so very welcome! Thank you for reading it!!
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Thank you for sharing such an inspiring story. Glad to know that Patrick is doing great. Have a wonderful weekend.
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In reality, it ain’t always the same happy story for everyone. He’s so fortunate. Must be faith and hope.
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Probably waiting for ten to twelve years was a reality. He was blessed to have the donation in 6 months. Yes we have faith and we prayed and just accept whatever God has for us!!
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How wonderful for Patrick. My husband is on dialysis as I write this! There is no chance of a transplant for him as he has other serious medical problems. But I am delighted for your family.
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Thank you so much!! I understand. I had radiation at the end of my chemo for my cancer. The doctor cancelled one order, because the radiologist said the damage of the radiation is irreversible. After assessment, the doctor said the damage would outweigh the benefit, so he only kept one other order of the radiation.
Do you help your husband, or does he go to medical facility to have it done?
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He goes to hospital 3 days a week. I am his carer as he doesn’t walk well. He has had several rounds of chemo but is having a break as the side effects are so damaging to his quality of life x
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Yes, the chemo has to be strong enough to get rid of the cancer, yet at the same time, for me, killed my normal cells also. I still have nerve damage on my legs and feet. It could damage the liver. But for my case. I didn’t have any more chemo except the initial 6 months.
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What a fantastic story … my heart feel all fuzzy! A wonderful perfect match!!!!
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Yes, we heard so many other stories. We are thankful that this turned out so well!!
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Miracles do happen. Thank God.
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Yes, We are very grateful. Thank you for reading!!
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What a wonderful story which hopefully will give faith to anyone in the same situation 🌹
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Yes, all we have to do is hope and trust. God can do wonders!!
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please don’t hate me
your story God at his best
He also needs help
i pray you pray too
many many more I’m sure
begging for world peace
may the showers of
His blessings be bestowed
on all His people
oh Lord please forgive
my words said with good intent
oh Lord mercy please
Amen
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Well done!! I like it!!
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Your so kind, thank you!
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You’re welcome!
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thanks again ☺
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Lovely to hear it was a good match and is still working well ☺💜
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Yes, he is doing very well. The family even went diving in Kawasaki, Japan last year!!
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I’m glad everything went well for your brother-in-law. May God continue to bless him with good health and recovery 🙂 On a lighter note, I noticed the tea-offering ceremony to the in-law’s parents in the second paragraph – my mother actually told me it was a tradition I would have to do too if I get married!
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Yes, it’s a tradition. The helper carries the tea, the bride takes the tea from the tray and give it to us. We then give them a red envelope with cash in. Since 4 of us went to the wedding, we gave accordingly. Are you getting married soon?
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I don’t think I’ll get married in another decade or so! But my sister’s friend did this with her in-laws so my mum thought it would be convenient to know that I would have to do it too.
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Oh I see! Don’t worry then. At least you have an idea what your mom would like you to do!
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Excellent news that he got the kidney and now is back to work!
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Yes, around that time, my sister internalized all the stress. We are grateful that everything is going well now!!
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This is a wonderful testimony! Thank you for sharing! God is good!
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Yes, Good is good. We were so grateful!
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Awesome to hear everything went well and is still going strong. God bless
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Than you! We are grateful!
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A great story!
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Thank you so much!
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Such a great story. So happy he could get a donor and that it all worked out.
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Yes, we are thankful and grateful!
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Nice story! I am glad everything is well now! I wish good health to you all!! 🙂
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Thank you. He has been well for nine years! Thank you for reading and comment!!
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Trust in him and he will make your paths straight!
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Very true!
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God is good all the time! 🙂
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Great news for him! So glad he is doing his calling. As our church says when something like this happens…Only God!
I donated my kidney to my husband and yes we were a good match too. It will be eight years this August. Hopefully it will last a long time.
Praying your brother-in-law’s kidney works for the rest of his life.
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Thank you. I’m glad to hear that your kidney works for your husband and it’s a good match. If it has been working for eight years, it should continue to work. Thank you for your kind word about Patrick. Yes, I pray that God continue to give him good health and use him in His ministry!
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Thank God for the miracle. Such a happy story😊
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Thank you for reading it. It was an amazing miracle, very unexpected, but God is good. Thank you for your comment!
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He’s good all the time😊
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Yes, He is. He is good to us all the time!!
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Wow! Love this!
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Thank you. He is doing very well!
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