Share Your World – December 4, 2017
Cee’s Share Your World – December 4, 2017
What household chore do you absolutely hate doing?
I don’t like to do dusting at all. The house gets dusty so quickly due to the drought and winds.
We don’t have enough rain in southern California to clean the air. It gets worse when Santa Ana winds appear. The winds are strong, extremely dry and down-slope winds that originate from inland affect the coastal southern California. Santa Ana winds are known for the hot dry weather in the fall, but they can arise at other times of the year. These winds, which can easily exceed 40 miles per hour, carry the dust for miles and drop them anywhere on the way.
I’m in the middle of writing this post and found out that the Santa Ana winds just caused several wildfires in southern California. The winds are blowing 50 to 70 miles per hours. The fire broke out in the middle of the night last night and was burning at nearly an acre per second. About 150,000 people in Los Angeles were affected by evacuation orders for the Creek fire near Sylmar and Lake View Terrace. One horse escaped from the fire and fell into a crack upside down. It was kicking the wall for hours until it got the attention. The firefighters were able to break the wall from inside to rescue the horse. It was given the anesthesia and taken to the hospital.
A friend’s son and the family live in the fire zone. His wife took the girls to drive 120 miles through local streets from Ojai to Fullerton City to stay with my friend. In the meantime, my friend’s son stayed behind to take care of his students and their families.

CNN – Ventura fire, CA – December 5, 2017

CNN – Ventura fire, CA – December 5, 2017
At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
I am a volunteer counselor. I’m passionate about helping people with emotional needs. I feel alive when I listen and focus on what they are going through and help them process their struggles. Many ladies, who sought help, expressed that I was the first person who listened to them. The counseling helped them to process their grief, anger, abuse, and other kinds of sufferings. At the end, they were able to experience self-forgiveness, forgiving, love, and a new life!
I got my master’s degree in counseling. I did full-time counseling for two years. Then my life took a turn, and I became an educator – a teacher and a school district administrator. After I retired from my education career, I decided to do some volunteer work that makes a difference.
How many times have you moved in the last ten years?
I have been living in my current home for twenty-five years.
What inspired you or what did you appreciate this past week? Feel free to use a quote, a photo, a story, or even a combination.
I appreciate the privilege of being alive which is not something I take for granted.
Three of my friends are battling with the complications of long-term illnesses. One friend started with lung cancer and cancer has gone to the brain. Another friend started with a heart problem and is now battling with lung problems. Yet another friend who started with the brain tumor a year ago, the news today was that the family requested setting up the hospice at home.
Miriam, I really enjoyed hearing about your journey into counseling for others. My hat’s off to you! Helping with others’ pain is such a challenging and much-needed resource. And I’m sorry to hear about the illnesses of your friends. My heart is with you. ❤
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Thank you, Teresa! I’m taking a break from counseling because of my frequent trip to Portland. My friends are are doing well at this point. It’s hard for the families! *=*
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well my prayers are going out for california and the fires – I heard someone thinks they might be related to terrorist attacks – ugh
and sorry your friend has the brain cancer – I had a friend from high school dire about ten years ago and that has made me appreciate time more….
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Thank you, Y! My friend’s kids and grand kids are staying until after Christmas – half of the school he teaches, got burned to the ground.
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oh how terrible… hope it all works out –
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Yes, I need to call her to find out more.
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and again – my prayers are will all who are in this horrid fire issue –
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Yes, we all pray for them and hope help in on the way.
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So much to be sad about but also so much to be thankful for in this post. I admire your attitude. Keep on being a light in a dark place
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Thank you so much. This Christmas is hard for 330,000 people. Yes, I’ll try to do my part when I still can. A wonderful weekend to you!
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The fires are very very horrifying
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It’s still burning tonight!!
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Ugh, I hate dusting too. I sneeze too much. XD
Yikes, that fire is really bad! I hope it isn’t too close to you?
It’s so great that you are a volunteer counselor! 🙂
I’m sorry to hear about your three friends’ health; I’ll be praying for them. ❤
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Thank you so much for reading through my post. The winds are getting worse. Getting closer to where we are, but not the fire. We’re thankful!
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I’m glad that the fire isn’t getting closer, but sorry that the wind are getting worse.
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Yes, one blogger found out that 330,000 people were affected by the fires. Well, the winds might have disappeared in the ocean and it’s little bit quieter here. It’s still very dry. Hopefully won’t have new fires.
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😱 Wow, that’s a lot of people!
I’m glad that the winds are no longer a problem for you. Yes, hopefully there will be no more fires!
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The fire died down. Sorry for so many people!
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I’m glad it died down! 🙂 Yeah, me too. It’s so sad.
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It’s still very dry. It’s mid December with almost 80 degrees during the day, cools down at night. I’m hoping for some rain!
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Wow. I hope you get some rain too! 🙂
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Yes, I keep hoping!
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You have a beautiful house Miriam! I hate dusting too. In India we have lot of dust especially in Delhi. No matter how many times we clean but still find dust on all household things its very tiring and time consuming task.
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Yes, I know it’s dry in India. We have another problem – when the garden does gardening, at the end, they use the blower to blow off the dust. The house they work on – looks clean, but they send the dust to the house around it…!!!
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Oh I see
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So I can’t keep up…
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A great insight to the lovely caring lady you are. God bless you Miriam x
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Thank you so much, Elaine! I’m recycling the “caring’ part, since I’ve been on the receiving end so much, I’m glad to reciprocate!! xox
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Im going to have to look u the fires. I grew up in Oxnard. Yikes. I’m so glad you volunteer with your counseling. Grief, from any source, is tough to overcome. Chris is a volunteer grief counselor. She works with The Dougy Center https://www.dougy.org here in Canby and has been doing it now for about 8 or 9 years. I wish we lived closer to each other.
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Yes, I wish to live in Portland even if it’s just for clean air. Love to have coffee with you. My friend’s son stayed behind to help the students to get home. The girls dorm and several buildings were burned to the ground. No school until after Christmas. School may have to find temp. facility. I’m glad Chris is doing grief counseling work. It takes compassion and patience to do it!
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I’ve learned a lot through Chris’s work … especially listening skills.
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Yes, our supervisor says, “Don’t be afraid of the silence. It’s okay to just sit there to be with them and listen when they are ready to talk.” It’s true in any conversations!
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Beautifully expressed about the privilege of being alive and a great reminder, Miriam. I am so sorry to hear about your friends and their families. xx
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Thank you very much! As hard as it is, at least the families feel they have done the best to care for their loved ones! xox
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So nice to know you better, Miriam. Sending in prayers to your friend and his family.
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Thank you so very much. Yes, I pray for them every day!!
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I loved your answers especially the last one. I absolutely second u that we must not take our life and it’s blessings for granted bcz life is a beautiful gift by Almighty. We should always thank Him for our good health and the countless blessings He has given us.
I’m also touched by the way you care for people and their emotions.
You’re such a kind person💖👌
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Thank you very much for your kind words. Yes, I count my blessings every day, and pray for the people in need!! 🙂 xo
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Aww.😚 that’s so sweeettt of you💖💖
Xoxoxxx
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Thank you very much, Jann!
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I so hope those fires stop Miriam. You are an inspiration to so many with your counselling. It is much needed in todays world. I am so sorry to hear of your dear friends’ illhealth. 🌼
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Thank you, Brigid!! Your blogger Rhonda is the friend who’s son stayed behind to help the students. His wife and the kids arrived safely at her house. Many sections of the school was burned to the ground, no school until after Christmas. Her son’s home was partially affected but will live with Rhonda until Christmas.
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Thank you Miriam. Rhonda told me yesterday about the fire. I did not realise you knew each other. 🌼
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We go to the same fellowship group on Sunday. I go to a Women’s Bible study at her home. It has been 28 years. She is a dear friend of mine! 🙂
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I never knew. How lovely 🌼
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It feels good to belong to a community group. 🙂
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So sorry to hear about your friends’ health problems and it is good when you can set up hospice in your own home. The fires are devastating and we pray everyone stays safe 👼💜 I love how the counselling work makes you feel passionate and alive – a win-win for you and the people you are helping ☺💖 xxx
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Thank you, Xenia. My son-in-law’s mom as well as my brother-in-law had hospices set up at home. It helped the families to be close to their loved ones. They would feel terrible if their loved ones passed away in their absence.
I’m thankful that I have listening ears!! 🙂 xox
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☺💖🙋♀️🌹 xxx
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🙂 🙂 xox
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This is beautiful, Miriam. I didn’t know that you do volunteer counseling. I love that! Sending you much love. 🙂 🙂 Blessings, and love Cee’s challenge Debbie
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This month is another busy month, so I only do a few a week. Somehow, it takes less juggling of words (like poems) to do free write! 🙂
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Indeed, cleaning the house is a never ending chore!
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Yes, I know. I do it when I have energy!
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Heheh… we never seem to have them!
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Yes, so I only do it when I have people come over.
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Glad to hear you’re well. The dryness and winds cause a lot of fires here also. I’m sorry about the horrible ones in CA.
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Thank you, Cheryl! I hope you’re safe!
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Yes, thank you!
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Good, you’re welcome!
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The fire today is so terrible, we had to move our grandparents from their house, the fire is growing and spreading all over…
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Yes, imagine 70 miles per hour and burns one acre per second… no, it’s unimaginable. I’m glad you were able to move your grandparents before becoming dangerous!
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I am so sorry to hear about your friends health problems, Miriam. Your post reflects your lovely personality and spirit.
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Thank you, Robbie! They’re close friends of 28 years. One sang with me in the choir. One is a real estate specialist who sold my old home and bought the current one for me 25 years ago. It’s hard to say good-bye to the one in hospice.
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Nice insight! Interesting that you get a lot dust at your home. I thought it was only in lil red dot as we have a lot of traffic etc. Nice to be able to stay in your home all the while – 25 years. Here in Singapore, people are attracted to new developments and we have such a thing as enbloc sales and people will sign to sell forcing remaining 20% who may not want to leave with no choice but to sell. So, in lil red dot, a home may not be permanently ours unless it is landed property but still if government acquires it for development, again, off it goes! Sigh!
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I know how it goes. My family in Hong Kong has the same situation. They own the flat.condo, but not the land. When I was a kid, we were relocated for government development.
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Sad ya!!
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Hmm… !!
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