Tuesday Photo Challenge – Memories
I can’t believe that Randy passed away in January 2016. I still can hear his cheerful voice and his laughter. Randy was our neighbor living two doors down the street. For twelve years, he and my husband went to the gym on weekdays, mountain bike riding on weekends, and happy hours on Fridays. I went with them for happy hours because I was the designated driver. We had barbeques on holidays and spontaneous game nights.
During the twelve years, Randy drove one and a half hours each way to take care of his ex-mother-in-law. When she was not able to care for herself, he helped to move her to a skilled nursing facility in our neighborhood and helped to sell her house. It amazed me at how a guy could take care of his ex-mother-in-law to that extent.
When he studied to take the Commercial Appraiser exam, his study materials made me dizzy. He was brilliant yet humble, accepting and non-judgmental. He kept in touch with childhood friends and held his own High School Reunion regularly.
Twenty-six months ago, Randy went on a mountain bike riding with a fellow from the gym. He had a terrible accident that smashed his head and face. He didn’t make it to the hospital. He’d be 65 years old on April 2, 2018
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Very touching post.
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I can understand this pain, longing alongwith memories of someone that lovable. May His soul be at peace. May God give you and your husband strength to bear this.
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Thank you, Meenakshi. He is one of a kind and once in a life time experience to have such a friend. We always remember him.
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What a terrible tragedy, Miriam. I am so sorry for both of your loss.
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Thank you, Robbie. On Randy’s birthday, one of his friends called my husband, and they talked for a while. That was good for both guys to remember Randy.
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What a wonderful tribute to a man that meant so much to you and your husband. Such a sad ending far too young. Memories I think help with the grief of losing a dear friend – they keep him alive in your heart.
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It’s so true, Irene. My daughter had a memory stone made and gave us as a gift. We put in in the garden of our front yard that we could see it every day. His dad was a Vietnam veteran. My husband wished Lane could have told them more war stories.
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How lovely of your daughter to do that. Perhaps the stories were too painful to tell.
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A few days ago I told my husband that we could dig him up from the grave.
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You just have to hold him in your heart and he’ll always be with you. Sending hugs.
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Thank you, Irene. We want to do that.
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A good friend will always be missed. May his soul rest in peace.
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Thank you so much. We celebrate his birthday today.
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Thank you, Frank.
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I remember you had posted beautiful article about this amazing person earlier.
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Yes, Subbashini, I did two posts previously. His birthday is tomorrow, and we still talk about him. Yes, we miss him greatly. Thank you for reading!
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Read about him in an older post, Miriam. The wonderful times that you and your husband spent with him are still alive, that shows the dept of friendship that you both treasured. A dedication to an old friend
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Yes, we always remember him. It’s his birthday tomorrow. I was kidding with my husband that I wish we could dig him up from the grave!!!
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Good tribute in honor of Randy. So sad he had that unfortunate accident. Blessings on this memorial day.
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Thank you, Garfield. We’ll celebrate his birthday tomorrow!!
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Excellent way of celebrating his life and not making it a sad occasion. This is how I like it too.
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Yes, you’re right, Garfield. Thank you!
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That is so sad, he looked such a lovely man. 🌹
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Yes, he was the kindest guy I’ve known!! ❤
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These are some really wonderful memories!
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Yes, Jui. We remember him all the time. Thank you!
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Lovely post Miriam. It is great that you and your husband have so many memories of what sounds like a really good man and close friend.
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Yes, thank you, Kim. Randy is a good man. We talk about him very often.
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