Lens-Artists Photo Challenge – Ordinary
Our theme this week is the Ordinary, hosted by I. J. Khanewala. There are many places, moments, things that we would say are ordinary. We may be surprised when the ordinary takes a turn.
My husband, Lynton and I started out this summer like any previous ordinary summers. Even though we didn’t take international trips, we took a couple of local getaways trips. We visited the grandkids. I took advantage of the summer colors and got some new flowers.

As soon as the summer rolled around the corner, things became a domino effect and tuned into an extraordinary summer. It was almost unstoppable without affecting the long-term effect.
There was an old 10’x8’ metal shed in the backyard. We had it for fifteen years. Lynton and I assembled it together. It was a major project we worked on it without getting upset with each other. I did my part, laying out all the nuts and bolts and parts. When Lynton assembled the panels, I handed him whatever he needed. I helped to hold the panels when he joined them together. The shed reminded us we could work together. What’s the big deal? It’s a big deal when two professionals live under the same roof. We could do our own things separately, but it takes extra consideration when working on the same project.
Finally, the shed was ready to retire. It leaked. The wooden floor was rotten and partly collapsed. We needed a new shed. We moved out everything from the old shed. Lynton demolished it.
I wanted a risen shed which is sturdier. I set a budget, but after looking for all the models, we picked one which cost twice as much as my initial budget.
“We better have a slab for the foundation. I wouldn’t be able to make a good leveled wooden foundation,” he said.
We got two quotes, but neither showed up for the job. It was a chance meeting when Lynton talked to a cement guy at a gas station. He came to give us a quote. He and his crew did the slab.
The section of the wall behind the shed bulged and threatened to collapse. We asked the cement guy for a quote. His quote was more reasonable than the one we got years ago. We needed a new wall, eventually. It would be hard to do it afterwards because there were only a few feet between the shed and the wall. We decided to have it done.
The guy and his crew demolished the wall, dug two feet deep and two feet behind the wall to pour cement for the foundation. All the dirt dug up was piling up on our lawn. It took them six weeks to build the wall.

Lynton put the new shed together almost all by himself. I only helped to hold up some panels when he joined them together.


The soil in the backyard was hard after six weeks without water. We nurtured the soil and waited for the summer heat to die down. Then Lynton put in the new seeds for the grass. The grass in the above photo is new grass.
While the back yard construction was going on, I replaced many of the annual flowers to perennial. I picked the flowers for hummingbirds, butterflies, and bees. Lantana was not my favorite flower because I thought it was not artistic. But it’s butterfly food. I raised 20 butterflies in the summer. Milkweed is for the butterflies to lay eggs. The adult butterflies need food, so it made sense to plant some flowers for butterfly food. Now I have pink or orange mixed colors, purple and yellow single color Lantana on the slope, in the backyard and front yard. They’re ready for the butterflies next year.
I planted more Sylvia for the bees because I need the bees to pollinate the plum and orange blossoms. I went crazy getting the Pentas when it was on sale. Not only the butterflies, but the hummingbirds and bees like them also.



For two months, the backyard was like a war zone. I’m glad the work is over. There shouldn’t be any more home improvement projects for the backyard for the remaining years we live in this house.
Lens-Artists Photo Challenge – Ordinary
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Miriam, the flowers in your first photo are almost exact matches to the ones by my mailbox. Although they’re ordinary, I take nothing for granted. We have rabbits in our neighborhood, and they love munching the flowers. So getting these to grow was quite the challenge this year! Ordinary? Yes. Lasting? Well, only with effort!
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I know what you meant Rusha. Several of the Vinca kept dying because slugs or other insects biting them. I checked them frequently until they stems grow thick, then I can leave them alone.
I have to see the photo of your flowers by your mailbox!
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Wow! You did a great job with refurbishing your back yard. I know just what you mean about the domino effect with home projects.
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My bathroom upstairs was another domino effect story. I only wanted to install a grab bar because my ankles are weak from the chemo. We ended up remodeled the entire bathroom!
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Bathrooms are notorious for the home improvement domino effect!
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Great improvements and your gardener’s touch really shows
And I read the comment to Tina – the wife with the hot pink walls – yikes! But as you noted – each couple does it different and compromise can vary
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Different couples have different ways to get along. Most of them feel shame to talk about it.
“The wife with the hot pink wall” – I can write a book about it. 😂😂👻
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☀️☀️☀️
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And sadly – some couples never learn to compromise or find that happy medium and end up parting ways –
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That was the point I left unsaid.
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Maybe it looked like a war zone, but it looks beautiful now, Miriam. The wall looks wonderful as does the shed. And your flowers are gorgeous. Job well done!
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Thank you, Diana. I’m glad we got them done before winter. The problems of the wall and shed wouldn’t go away and had to do it anyway. I’m sitting out in the back yard and it’s getting cold. I hope we’ll get some rain this winter. CA needs it desperately.
Thank you for your comment! 💖
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I hope you get some rain too! The whole West Coast needs it. Enjoy your back yard in the meantime.
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What a lovely post, Miriam, and it’s wonderful how you and your husband could work together. The wall looks great and I’m envious of the green grass. We’re in a severe drought so have let our grass go like others have done in our area. I look at photos of when our backyard looked beautiful with the emerald lawn and I hope we get it back next year. Hoping for rain. Your flowers are gorgeous, too, and one thing that still thrives is our lantana; it is so sturdy and colorful. I don’t have a green thumb so flowers that are sturdy work good for me. 🙂
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Thank you, Lauren. It takes effort to work with my hubby. I’m our early years of marriage, when we couldn’t agree, we just gave up on the projects! 😂😔 He’s getting softer though. The last few years, our cities limited to watering the lawns on certain days and certain hours. I didn’t hear anything this year. But the city raised the price for the water. I’m paying $130 a month. In a way, people would have to limit the use of water if they don’t want to pay.
I inherited the green thumb from my dad. One of the best things inherited from him. I take care of the flowers and hubby takes care of the lawn.
Do you live on the west coast?
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I remember when you commented on Barbara’s post about my book that we are neighbors, if my memory serves me right. We’re in the bay area, just north of San Francisco. I’m a native Californian, but we hope to move out of CA in our retirement within the next 3-4 years. We’re just not sure where. Our son and daughter are on the east coast, which makes it more difficult. That weather isn’t appealing, and yet, we’d love to be closer to them. We shall see. I do see some green lawns around here, so maybe those people are paying higher water bills too. My 2 sisters inherited the green thumb from my mom but not me. I inherited my mom’s love for baking. But we all did, actually. My husband has the green thumb and he used to be an arborist. We all became tree lovers because of him. 🙂
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One step at a time😍 I love this buddy 🤭💖
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Thank you for your comment! 🙂
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Now your back yard is anything but ordinary. The flowers are beautiful (including the lantana). The retaining wall is perfect. And the shed looks great!
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Thank you, Priscilla. There’s a slope behind the retaining wall. I planted a lot of African Lilies as groundcover. Starting from last year, I planted the milkweed and have more to do. Gardening is my ongoing pleasure!
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Good for you two Miriam! I know just what you mean about 2 professionals working together. My husband and I have to really focus on teamwork and I will admit I’m more often the problem LOL. So used to getting my own way! Love your beautiful results, your patience was definitely rewarded. Just like your husband it would be just like mine to strike up a conversation with a stranger and have it turn out to be a great resource. Funny how things work out isn’t it?!
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We compromised a lot, or I should say, I gave in a lot, Tina. When I couldn’t compromise, we split the decision. One example was that we painted downstairs in two colors, even though the colors flow. I picked two rooms to paint the color I liked. The rest of the rooms are in the color he liked. I always reminded him that many couples let their wives do the decorations. One wife had a huge family room painted in hot pink with pink decor. Not many husbands would like it. LOL! Well, mostly, we divide up the responsibilities and do them the ways we like!!
I have to say, most of the time, I like the results of his decisions and I have to remember that!!
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Excellent Miriam.
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I’m glad you liked it, John! Thanks.
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what a wonderful post Miriam with great pictures. Love the new shed /.. so awesome🌷❣️❣️❣️❣️
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Thank you so much, Cindy. I’m glad you liked the pictures. ❤ ❤
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YOU’RE SOOOO WELCOME!💖
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Isn’t that the way, You start one thing and it leads to another and another. The finished product is worth it though. xo
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Life seems to be that way in many forms, Darlene. Yes, I can say now, it’s worth it. 💜
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Great pics and nice new shed! Smart to put it on a cement slab.
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Thank you, Denise! We watched many videos of how people set up the foundation and assemble the shed. I also read the reviews. Some people complained about the shed coming apart. Probably they didn’t set the foundation correctly and the shed got shifted. We researched for a few months before doing this.
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Nice shed – well done getting it done too!
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Thank you, AC! We’re set for many more years!
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Beautiful new shed! Ours needs to be gotten rid of too, as it’s an old metal one on a warped now wooden floor, and the whole thing leaks and is full of dust. Your new one is wonderful looking! 🙂
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Our old one got really bad, Barbara. My foot almost got trapped in the rotten floor. I’m glad we got a new one! 🙂
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So much to like about this post. I was first snagged by that wonderful line–“we worked on it without getting upset with each other.” Isn’t that the truth? I’m trying to come up with a similar experience in my house! Then the contractors not showing up. We find most of our contractors by walking around the neighborhood, find someone working, and chat with them. We’ve had really good luck with that approach.
Love your flowers! Nice start to a Wednesday.
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Our reasoning was that some people were still getting unemployment pay which was equivalent to $15/hour. They didn’t want to work. Hubby walked around the neighborhood also. Good thing he found this guy at the gas station. Yes, it’s a big deal that he and I could work together. 🙂 He’s getting better and better though.
The flowers are still doing well. I took the photos right before doing the post. Will see how they hold up in the winter.
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That’s really good logic and probably why. This too shall pass.
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There’s nothing ordinary about the end result of all the hard work. Beautiful, Miriam. And, as always, I love your photos. Thank you for brightening the day! 🌞
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The waiting was like forever, Gwen. That guy probably was running between jobs. They didn’t show up some of the days. We’re happy with the end result! I’m glad you liked the photos. I have a picture folder just for the flowers by month and year! 🙂
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Miriam, I can so relate to this post. I remember when my husband and I ripped up our entire rear yard and had a large covered patio and deck added. I never thought the yard would recover from the devastation, LOL!
The photos are lovely. Shed, retaining wall, flowers—everything looks great. Wonderful share!
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I can imagine what it’s like with such a huge undertaking, Mae. Your covered patio and deck must be lovely and enjoyable. I wanted to have a glass-covered patio with sliding glass doors. The quote was $40,000. So I just settled for the aluminum cover, no sliding doors!
Phew! We don’t need any more home improvement projects. Now I can sit out on the patio to look at the flowers and my hummingbird residents, and do some writing.
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Relaxing outside and writing is one of my favorite good weather pass-times, Miriam. Happy writing!
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I’ll enjoy writing outside before the winter comes, Mae!
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“Ordinary” projects are always an ugly undertaking while they’re ongoing, but the end result is always worth it. The yard looks lovely. Enjoy it.
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We did one project at a time in the past. When we remodeled the kitchen. It was draped and sealed off the dust. We cooked in the bathroom downstairs for a few days. When we had the “cottage cheese” removed from the ceiling, we stayed in the hotel nearby because of the chemical they used. I’d never thought of doing several projects at the same time and left the things on the patio for a couple of months. I’m glad it’s done. I guess I would enjoy sitting out on the patio more often!
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Hi Staci, I read the facts about you on your bio page. Just wanted to say my daughter who is 36 and had a small cavity on her wisdom tooth. It was like the sky was falling. As far as pets, I’m the opposite. I had goldfish, birds, tadpoles, and chicks. We had a cat and a dog for our daughter when she was young but I don’t have any pets right now. I like the way you write your bio.
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Your poor daughter. I hope it all turned out okay in the end.
I wish my parents had let us have pets. My siblings and I desperately wanted them. All of us ended up owning dogs as adults.
Thanks for visiting my page!
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She told me about it last month. I think it was just a tiny cavity.
It’s fun for the kids to have pets. But I’m sure your parents had other fun things for you to do.
Hubby was born in Australia. He and the two siblings were just wandering in the woods and climbed trees.
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Well, climbing trees can be fun, too.
Glad your daughter is okay. My sister is going through a terrible tooth ordeal right now. Dentists are still backed up from being closed for the pandemic.
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So beautiful garden. Amazing life u live.
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Thank you so much, Rajkkhoja!
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Your wall looks amazing, Miriam, they did a great job. It is lovely that Lynton and you can work together on a project. Your back yard looks wonderful, worth the inconvenience and cost.
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They did a great job, Robbie! We learned to work together over the years. The major work is done. I need to do some more gardening before winter gets here.
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The garden looks great. I love Pentas as mine flower all year round. Mt Salvia is going so well and I have propagated a lot more, the native Blue-banded Bees love them. Lantana is an invasive weed on my property, a constant battle, so sorry I do not like lantana 🙂
That is one flash shed Miriam, I am glad you have put a wooden floor in over the top of the cement slab – as we call them in Australia. Looks like you’ll have many enjoyable hours out there. Have you any tables and chairs in the garden? 🙂 🙂
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That was the reason I didn’t want Lantana all these year, Brian. I planted in many spots but I’m watching out and trimming them before they get out of control. The Pentas is great and the hummingbirds love it.
Yes, I have a patio set of table and chairs in the garden. Also has an armed chair for me to sit and read or write. The shed comes with a rubber floor. The panels lock into the floor. We put the rubber floor on the cement slab first and hooked the panels into the slots of the rubber floor.
It was hot in the summer. Some panels went out of shapes. Hubby had to do the assembly in the morning or evening when they cooled off. ☺️😊
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Yes, hot days and aluminum as well as rubber aren’t compatible. Plus the heat exhaustion being avoided. My Eastern Spinebills do good Hummingbird impressions at the Pentas flowers. 🙂
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I would be feeling two things if I were in your shoes:
1. Pride because everything looks great, and you managed to get it all done.
2. Relief since you won’t have to deal with any of this for quite some time.
Well done to you and your hubby.
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We asked ourselves about all four (one is not shown) projects, “How long can they hold up? How long are we going to live in this house?” We thought it would be 10 for both questions unless something happen not in our control.
Thank you for your comment, Pete.
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Nice slice of ordinary life
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We can always find a little surprise her and there. Thank you for hosting this week, I. J.
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Beautiful!
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Thank you, Claire! Just have a little bit more flower planting to do.
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how nice to have the work finished and now you can sit back and enjoy it all for years to come…
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That’s the plan, Jim. No more home improvement for the next ten years.
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sounds like a great plan…
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Thank you!
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